Sunday, May 07, 2006

IT'S NOT "JUST STUFF"

How many times have I heard someone say, "Well, it's all "just stuff", as in "only" stuff???

Well, I beg to differ... It's not "just stuff", in fact it's way more than "stuff". Our houses are full of things that other's might call "stuff", but to us are priceless treasures because of what they represent, the memories they invoke, the feelings that they awaken inside of us. They are not "just stuff". Because they make us happy, remind us of where we came from, who we are and maybe even who or what we would like to become, if they were lost, or destroyed, as they can be and sometimes are, we would feel a great loss, because many of them cannot be replaced. Yes, we may still be able to remember them, or the place, person or event that made them special to us, but over time the memories may dim and we might miss the "stuff", wishing we had it back again to help us remember.

Here's some of our "stuff" - not all of it by a long stretch, but then, this blog is not big enough for all of it. In no particular order of importance, because they are all important. Some of it is on display in our home. Some of it is kept in closets. Some of it is in special boxes that we keep this kind of stuff in so that from time to time we can pull it out and remember:

The Jade Grizzly reminds me of the Canadian Rockies and the many wonderfull times I spent there as a child and an adult, and of the times and feelings I had when I actually saw a live grizzly in the wild.

Jade Grizzly

The glass disc reminds me of our year in Venezuela. It wasn't ALL bad. In fact there was probably more good than bad.

glass disc

The antique clock that belonged to the old woman that grammy shared a room with for 7 years while she was growing up, and learned to tell time on. Oh, the memories this one holds!

Sister Mattler's Cloc

Magic kalaidescope, complete with letter from Papa.

kaleidescope

The baseball glove that I keep around even though I never played much, but keep just in case the grandson's (OK, and daughters) might want to play catch with Papa when they come to visit.

baseball glove

Lakes Moraine and Louise - two of the most beautiful places on earth. Filled with memories.

Mountain Lakes

The stupid horn your Dad brought you home from his trip to Portobello Road in London.

horn

Smiley Face lamp, Canadian Flag, stuffed animals, hope chest...... the list goes on.

More stuff

Quite possibly our most memorable family vacation - Summer 1994.

Disney Plate

To remember that we were once little and someone loved us enough to present us to the world in the very best. These are Grammy's baby booties.

booties

A dresser full of "stuff" - every piece meaningful!

dresser top

Reminder of vacations at the shore:

sea shell

The friendship bracelets my daughters made for me. Yes, I kept them all these years.

friendship bracelets

And who wouldn't want and cherish a "Flagon with a Dragon".

flagon with a dragon

Family pictures.

Grampa

Cape May

Many of these things were given as gifts. Some were purchased as souvenirs and remembrances of trips and special occaisions. Some were inherited. Some were just picked up along the way. All are special to us.

"Just Stuff"???? I think not!!!!!!

I'm sure you all have your own stuff. Treasure it!

5 Comments:

At 4:08 PM, Blogger Grammy said...

Honey, everything you chose made me smile. Oh, we have wonderful memories from over the years. I love that you are sentimental, that you write me precious notes to go with special presents (like the kaliedescope) and that you also value my feelings and honor them. You are the Sweetest! I hope we have LOTS more years to make memories together. I love you!

 
At 1:14 AM, Blogger Nantie Meg said...

Dad, this post totally made me cry. I love that you kept that friendship bracelet. and that you showed off my hopechest and horn. All of the stuff from my bedroom is the stuff that is keeping my college apartment from feeling like home.

I love you like crazy!

 
At 6:30 AM, Blogger Gabriela said...

Your house is such a warm, happy place to visit. I love your stuff and that everything has its own story.

 
At 11:51 AM, Blogger Kathryn Thompson said...

That was such a fun walk through the memories. I can't believe you kept those bracelets. I love that. Stuff is definitely more than "just stuff."

 
At 12:58 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love that you kept the bracelets, too. Is the striped one from me? I remember making you one years ago.

 

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